Magick Has No Room For False Pride...

Here's dialog I have with many clients, to the point that I need to write about it. I hope this will help someone.
Client:
Lady Mage / Ms. Missy can you please prepare something for me to cause my EX to remember our love? I want him/her to feel what I feel, and know that he/she made a terrible mistake. I want him/her to dream about the way things used to be with us. I want to rekindle his/her love & feelings for me, as they once were. Oh, but I don't want to harm his/her current relationship in any sort of way. I'm not asking to break them up, and I definitely don't want to force his/her will to love me and come back. I just want to encourage him/her to remember the good times, so he/she can come back with his/her own "free will." Even though, he/she hurt me so bad, betrayed me, and broke my heart into a million jagged pieces, and left me for this new person. I really don't wish to destroy their relationship, and force him/her to come back. Can you do this? Can something be prepared specifically so he/she can feel bad, and remember me again, and want me back on his/her own accord? I just want this to be done naturally, and not alter their paths in any way. This is really important, by the way, and how much does it cost; and how long will it take before he/she is sorry? Oh, and he/she has to contact me; I'm not calling or approaching him/her. And just to be sure he/she is sincere and really wants me back; I'm going to ignore him/her, at first. Then, after he/she suffers a bit, I'll take him/her back - maybe, maybe not! I'll have to see how I feel at that time. So, what are your thoughts, and can you help me?

My First True Thoughts:
Are you fucking kidding me? No, you're obviously kidding yourself! And, you're how old? 42? And, you re-read this before you emailed me, and you actually believe what you wrote? By the way, this is mostly from women; however, I do get men saying this, as well. What amazes me is that it doesn't matter the gender, age, sexual orientation, ethnicity/cultural background, the financial level, nor the educational achievements or accolades.

Warning: Love is sure crazy at times, and may drive people mad quite often. Be sure you fasten your seat-belt for the roller coaster ride of love & romance. And, please tread lightly; and be wiser with your choices of who you partake in that forbidden fruit from the very fucking start. Lawd!!!! Have Mercy! Fix it Jesus! Grab all the wheels....what would all the greatest mystics say?

My usual spiritual response, after I exhale; and pray for my client & myself:
I feel your pain, and wish you better days, my dear. But, I must say, that you are not saying what your heart is really wanting. You're sounding too nice about your approach, and I get it, but you cannot do magick that way. The deepest darkest truth is what your true intentions are, and it will come through and must match the ritual you're performing. You obviously want him to return to you. And some part of you, you want him to come back begging, and asking for forgiveness. Magick has no room for pride; magick has no room for what's the proper thing to say, want, or do. Magick's best results are your rawest, deepest, desires - and it's after you've come to terms with it yourself first. Magick is specific, and you must really "know" what you desire to get the results you want, and not be afraid or embarrassed to ask for it, nor admit to those true desires. Remember always, that conjure and rootwork is never done alone. The spirits that walk with you, the spirits that you invoke during your rituals will always know. It is actually an insult to think you can fool them, or hide your true thoughts. It's okay to be totally and completely honest with oneself. Not doing so, is the very reason why many people never heal their wounds, or delay the healing process and suffer needlessly.

I believe that what's best is for you to book a Conjure Psychic Reading with me to discuss this, and then determine through divination which methodology will be best for this situation.
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Many blessings,
Missy